Your income depends on people choosing YOU.
Real estate agent. Financial advisor. Consultant. Coach. Business owner.
Whatever you call yourself, the truth is the same: your success requires you to be visible, trusted, and chosen - and to trust yourself when it matters most.
You're working hard. You care deeply about what you do.
And you're playing smaller than you know you should be.
You know what you need to do. Be more visible. Charge what you're worth. Have those difficult conversations. Make bold moves. Trust your expertise.
You've been thinking about this for months. Maybe years. You know that staying small isn't working. That your success can't grow if you don't.
But you keep holding back.
Every time you get close - when you're about to put yourself out there, have that difficult conversation, make that bold move, raise your prices, take that risk, or trust your own expertise - something stops you.
Your body tenses up. Your mind spirals with worst-case scenarios. The fear gets so loud you can't think straight. You freeze.
So you pull back. You stay safe. You tell yourself "not yet." You add one more thing to the preparation list.
Who This Is Really For:
This work is for women whose success requires THEM to be visible:
Real estate agents who know the market inside-out but freeze when it's time to do video content, negotiate confidently with difficult clients, host solo open houses, or ask for referrals without feeling pushy - instead of hiding behind their brokerage.
Financial advisors and insurance agents who are brilliant at what they do but feel uncomfortable with networking, visibility, advocating for premium fees, or trusting their recommendations when clients push back - and undercharge compared to more confident colleagues.
Consultants and freelancers who are experts in their field but play small on LinkedIn, undercharge for their services, avoid difficult client conversations, or second-guess every decision they make.
Coaches and service providers who know they should be more visible but something inside won't let them step into the spotlight or hold firm boundaries with demanding clients.
Business owners who hide behind their work instead of being the face of their brand, or who can't make bold decisions without endless overthinking.
What you all have in common: Your income depends on people seeing you, trusting you, and choosing you. And something inside keeps you playing small.
Here's What's Really Happening:
You're smart. You're hardworking. You know a lot about what you do.
But the strategy isn't your issue. You know exactly what to do - and something inside just won't let you do it.
Not because you're broken. Not because you're not capable.
But because your nervous system is trying to keep you safe. Because old beliefs are still running. Because your identity hasn't caught up to where your success is going. Because patterns of playing small have been protecting you for years.
That's where I come in.
I don't teach you business strategy, sales techniques, or marketing tactics. I help you do the inner work that makes everything else possible.
Because your success can only grow as much as you do.
Imagine This Instead:
You show up fully visible - on video, at networking events, in your marketing - and your body feels calm, grounded, solid.
You price at premium rates and your nervous system doesn't scream "they'll say no."
You have difficult conversations with clients - setting boundaries, addressing issues, asking for what you need - without your body going into freeze mode.
You trust your decisions and expertise - even when clients question you or colleagues doubt you.
You take bold moves without needing perfect certainty - because you trust yourself to handle whatever comes.
You make decisions and move forward - without the endless overthinking and second-guessing.
You embody "successful, visible professional" - not performing it, but living it fully.
You look back six months from now and think: "I can't believe I waited so long. This is exactly where I'm meant to be."
This is what becomes possible when you transform at the identity, belief, pattern, and nervous system level.
SoulJoy Alchemy: Your Transformation Journey
This isn't business coaching. There are thousands of programs that will teach you marketing tactics, sales strategies, and business plans.
This is transformation work.
Through a combination of transformation coaching and somatic coaching, we work at the root of what's keeping your success small:
Your Identity - You're still operating as "working hard but staying hidden" when your success needs you fully visible and confident
Your Beliefs - Stories like "I'm not ready to be seen" or "what if people judge me" or "I'm not expert enough" are running your decisions
Your Patterns - The habit of playing it safe, staying small, hiding behind the work, or avoiding the things that would actually grow your success
Your Nervous System - Your body won't let you be visible, take risks, or trust yourself because it perceives these as dangerous
We transform who you are - so the path forward becomes clear and taking action becomes natural.
This Is Transformation At Every Level:
Your Identity Shifts
From "working hard but staying hidden" to fully visible, magnetic, and confident. You don't just know you're successful - you embody it. You trust yourself. You show up. You take the risks that grow your success.
Your Beliefs Transform
The old stories - "I'm not ready," "What if they judge me," "I'm not expert enough" - get replaced with unshakeable self-trust and the confidence to be fully visible.
Your Patterns Break
The habit of playing it safe, staying small, hiding behind the work, or avoiding the things that would actually grow your success gets interrupted and replaced with courageous, aligned action.
Your Nervous System Regulates
Your body finally feels SAFE being visible, taking risks, and trusting yourself. The fear of being seen becomes manageable. You can move forward boldly.
This is why it works when strategy hasn't. We're not just teaching techniques - we're transforming who you are so your success can grow.
Why This Isn't Business Coaching (And Why That Matters)
I'm not a business coach. I'm not a sales trainer. I don't teach marketing strategies, networking scripts, or tactical how-tos.
What I DO is help you transform at the identity, belief, pattern, and nervous system level - so you can finally do the things you already know your success needs.
Business coaches teach you WHAT to do. I help you become someone who CAN do it.
That's why this works when strategy hasn't.
The SoulJoy Method™: The 4 Phases
REVEAL - Making the Invisible Visible
We map your identity gap, excavate limiting beliefs, recognize patterns, and assess your nervous system. You finally SEE what's been blocking you. Most clients say "I can't believe I didn't see this before!" You'll have clarity, language for your blocks, and relief.
RELEASE - Dismantling What No Longer Serves
We work somatically to release old beliefs from your body, interrupt patterns in real-time, and regulate your nervous system so being visible, charging your worth, or having difficult conversations doesn't trigger fight-flight-freeze. Space opens up for something new.
REWIRE - Installing New Identity, Beliefs, and Patterns
You embody your new identity, anchor empowering beliefs in your body, and take bold moves WITH nervous system support. You're not just thinking "I should be more confident" - you're EMBODYING confident, visible, trusted professional. This is where you become HER.
RISE - Integration and Sustainable Growth
The transformation becomes permanent. You have tools for when old patterns resurface. Your nervous system stays regulated even when stakes are high. You're living as this new version of yourself - not performing it, BEING it.
The inner work opens and reveals the path forward.
How We'll Work Together:
This is a private transformation program designed to help you finally become the woman whose success can grow.
We work together through deep 1:1 transformation and somatic coaching sessions, with ongoing support between sessions to help you integrate and take action.
All sessions are online - same powerful transformation, accessible wherever you are.
Choose your journey:
3-Month Intensive - For focused transformation on a specific block keeping you small.
$2,995 CAD
Payment Plans Available.
6-Month Deep Dive - For complete transformation across identity, beliefs, patterns, and nervous system.
$5,995 CAD
Payment Plans Available.
This Is For You If:
✓ Your income depends on you being visible, trusted, and chosen - and you're committed to your success.
✓ You know what your success needs from you - but something inside won't let you do it.
✓ You've tried strategy and tactics but that’s not where you’re blocked.
✓ You're ready to do the inner work (identity, beliefs, patterns, nervous system).
✓ You're done holding back and ready to be fully visible.
✓ You're willing to invest in your transformation.
This Is NOT For You If:
✗ You're still figuring out what you want to do for work (I don't do clarity coaching).
✗ You're looking for business strategy, sales scripts, marketing plans, or tactical how-tos.
✗ You want a quick fix or magic bullet.
✗ You're not willing to do deep identity, belief, pattern, and nervous system work.
✗ You're not actually ready to be seen and grow.
What Happens in Your 1:1 Coaching Sessions?
Each session works at the level that creates real change - your identity, beliefs, patterns, and nervous system.
We work with what's really blocking you:
Identity: Who are you when you're fully visible? We shift you from "working hard but hidden" to "confidently seen professional" - and help you embody it.
Beliefs: The limiting stories - "I'm not ready," "I'm not expert enough" - get transformed, not just intellectually, but somatically in your body.
Patterns: The habit of playing small, hiding behind the work, holding back - we interrupt these at the root and replace them with courageous action.
Nervous System: The fear in your body when you imagine being visible, the freeze when you think about taking risks - we regulate your system so growth feels safe.
You'll leave each session more embodied in your new identity, more free from old beliefs, more able to interrupt patterns, and more regulated in your nervous system.
This isn't talk therapy. This isn't traditional coaching. This is transformation work that happens at every level - mind, beliefs, identity, body.
The inner work opens and reveals the path forward.
Ready to stop playing small?
Book your discovery call and let's begin your transformation.
Testimonials.
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★★★★★ Debra is the real deal! She is so connected and it shows in her guidance. The whole session felt so supportive and exactly what I needed! I really enjoyed her process, it was very effective and I got to go deep and explore blockages in my body and feel so much better after. I've gained so many amazing insights just from one session! I recommend her 100%!!!!
Ariane M., Somatic Client
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★★★★★ Such a nice session. It really made a positive impact on my whole day. I felt like I was in a better space and my body as a whole felt a better. I walked away from the session feeling very encouraged and hopeful.
Emily B., Somatic Client
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★★★★★ Debra is absolutely amazing! This somatic session felt so supportive. I really appreciated that because she was so attuned she knew exactly what I needed in order for me to connect as fast as I did safely. It was so helpful with the situation that I wanted to work on as I was able to get a lot of information that I'll be able to use to move forward and make some lasting changes. I'm very excited for our next session together!!!
A.M., Somatic Client